Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Monday, January 19, 2015

Christmas Day- Again

After the FaceTime with Grandma and Grandpa Labrum we started our normal night routine and got everyone in bed. I had taken the time to wrap MOST of the presents but we had a few last minute things to put together.

Before we went to bed we finished our very last ornament on the *Jesus* tree and laid out the stockings. We don't have a chimney so we just laid them out. Our Grandma made our stockings and we LOVE them. ( My 4 favorite christmas things are my icicles from my mom, our stockings, our Christ tree and my sister made me a Nativity)


This is our Nativity and our Christ tree. It is by far my favorite place each night!


Santa had done some last minute Christmas shopping like 3 days before Christmas so a few things needed to be wrapped. Oh and one night, while Santa couldn't sleep very well she ordered Christmas and all this STUFF came that I didn't realize I ordered. Ha! 


Every Christmas or birthday I keep thinking " Man I wish Nicky was here so I could pay her to wrap!"  But finally after years of practice and her not being around to pay off, I learned to wrap!


Grayson doesn't sleep through the night so I was hoping to be done wrapping before he got up and walked around the house. ( No I am not kidding about the sleeping through the night. ) He got up AFTER I put everything together. But as I was setting my camera and my remote, in walked the best picture opportunity 

This was on the back of the camera but it was PERFECT!!!


Tyler asked for very few things but his things were specific. Enjoying the spoils of the day!! 





We did get girl stuff for Christmas. Everyone loves it. The doc mobile was taken out and sent to the park as fast as they could get. They also wore their underpants all day!!!

Ther rest of the day was playing with our toys and making dinner and mushrooms and just being a family. It was GREAT. Our Grandparents were coming the next day so we were super excited to see them.

I never thought there was "enough" presents under the tree, but there was. I always think I do give enough to them, but I do. I don't require much to be a happy mom at times like this. There was plenty to go around.

This last year was nothing spectacular. Nothing fabulous and we just were here. Just like I like it. Drama ( mostly) free and surrounded by those who love us!!!



The Christmas Post

Since our tree JUST went down yesterday and I still have an hour or 2 of cleaning to do before it is all gone, I thought I would take the rest of my "homework" time to catch up on my December. I jumped ahead to the first of the year but want to make sure the Holiday Fun was documented.


Because we live in the Deseret the evenings are not horrible and so the holidays are very enjoyable. We spent a lot of time outside and most of the time we didn't need anything more than a jacket. The boys did a lot of playing outside for HOURS at a time.



One day while we were just minding our own business the North Pole Transponder showed up at our house. I am pretty sure it was the Elf that provided books every night. But the transponder was AWESOME. It would call the North Pole once every 24 hours and we got to talk to someone. A few times it was Santa. A few times it was an Elf but every time it was FUN!






We went to a Christmas party for Hope Kids and had a great time. It was at the party that Tyler spent his entire time playing basketball, that Santa made a last minute decision to buy a basketball hoop for Tyler. 

We split up at the hope kids party and I didn't take enough photos for each of them, but Grayson had a snow ball fight and he loved it. 


Grayson undecorated and redecorated my tree a million and one times. By the end of the season, I had a section of my tree with everything from icicles to a BOWL!! I found a bowl in my Tree when we were taking it down. 



We did our traditional visit to Santa and the Farm. We have seen the SAME Santa for 4 years. He is getting old and he doesn't look overly thrilled but he is the same one! 






Feeding goats and the blind donkey was a HIGHLIGHT of our night. Oh wait, no going by the poo pond was my kiddos favorite thing! 



This rabbit is from the Velveteen Rabbit story. It was so so soft. The kids loved it. Next thing we did was go on a hayride in the dark, right past Poo Pond where they deposit the poo. HOLY gag. Cache Valley Cows are still by far my favorite smell. The poo pond was BAD.. real bad. 


We played with salt dough but it was not enough to make it smell yummy to give to our friends. So we just played with it. 


No holiday can go by without a quick run to the pediatrician's office, where we had to get our hematocrit checked. Grayson was a beast and we KNEW he was low but needed to know how low to see if we needed to be checked in or not. So off to the doctors we went. 


We are low. VERY low. But we were not admitted and we have just done what we could to get through the exhaustion.

Christmas PJ's by the Labrum grandparents and we got to FaceTime them while we opened it. 

Next up...... Christmas ( the Santa part!) and Christmas day!! 

Thursday, December 18, 2014

First December Activity

The week after Thanksgiving, Grandma and Grandpa Brown came down to help G and G "Warmer." They spent a few days there and then came here. Getting ready for Christmas and visitors was a lot. And sometimes, days are long for us! So a shopping trip and plans were made.


We had 2 very excited kids. We had high hopes of having such amazing warm weather but we really had a bit of rain.

Ok, we had a lot of rain.

The day of the big storm, I did everything in my power short of duct tape, to keep Grayson out of the park and out of the water. It didn't work. Oh and he has been potty trained for a bit now, but with visitors wouldn't use the bathroom because "Grandma might see my Pirates." So we went through LOTS of clothes. In Arizona, you don't use long pants all that often, so he doesn't have THAT many to go through. We washed A LOT!


We had planned to go to the Mesa temple lights that night and we had planned to make hot scones and hot cocoa, so the fact that it rained made it even a better night to do it all. 

We headed out to dinner and the lights. We made it to the lights to start touring and the boys LOVED it. The nativity scenes there are really beautiful and the reflection pool are done up so well. We waited for a while for our dad to come but he was really slow. ( A painful confession followed the slowness later!) 



I asked some of the Missionaries there if we could walk up close to the nativity scene so that he could see the scene. Grayson, Tyler and I were able to go right up and look. The Nativity was carved out of a specific wood in Italy. It was gorgeous and so life like. Tyler and Grayson looked at the Wise men and then did the the baby Jesus. It was so, so  cool!


After we got home we checked out our Elf, who happens to bring us a Christmas book every night instead of something I have to clean up and actually do the next day and then our Christ tree. We headed to bed and then the adults enjoyed the evening of scones and hot chocolate. 

This season has been one where I feel totally and completely blessed. We have made and done some things this year that have left us at peace. For a long time we have had to make choices that have left us some what drained. However, after making some better choices and putting up boundaries and allowing us to set our own rules and relying on each other we are definitely in a different place. 

We can't wait for the new year and to see where it brings us. 


Wednesday, December 17, 2014

hello Christmas Season- It is almost time to say goodbye!!!

Our Christmas season started WELL before most. Tyler and Grayson wanted Christmas to be here so badly. So we decided that we would start the season FAR earlier than my entire family would EVER truly believe that " I" would set up Christmas.

How early you ask?

Why, about 50 days before Christmas.


It wasn't a TRUE start because we pulled out our old tree. ( We have had it for 7 years of our marriage) and a good portion of the lights didn't work. Even more than didn't work last year. But last year we were not willing to part with it just yet. So I went on a quest. Grayson and I went to every store we could think of that would sell Christmas trees and buy a new one. With a budget of course. We were willing to go about $200 bucks ( which is A LOT for a stupid fake tree in my opinion) but I don't do well with real and real, in Arizona, don't come till December. So, I took my budget and was on a quest. 

Hobby Lobby was our stop. We were there on a sale day. ( Ok, hobby lobby has a sale day every day) and I got a GREAT deal on a 499 dollar tree, that came in UNDER my budget by a few bucks. So much so that I even got to purchase a non ghetto red felt tree skirt and upgrade it to burlap and snowmen. But the tree was a pretty tree. ( With a warranty.... ten years!!)

It took Grayson and I a while to get it all fluffed out and exactly how we wanted it. Especially since I figured out late that each branch had 2 more branches that I didn't know moved. Oh it was the experience. 

We left it bare for a while then slowly started decorating. I only have 3 colors on my tree and in my wisdom at some point, I bought half glass and half plastic ornaments of all colors. So my bottom half of my tree is the plastic ones and the top half is my glass ones. 

This year I added a few in there but had the boys help. Have you ever taken a 3 year old and a blind kid into a ornament store!! OH MY! It was great. 


These new ornaments were defiantly what our tree needed to spruce it up for the season. The first one was a snowman. 

Isn't it cute, there is snow in the bottom. 


This one is a little more "religious" for me. It wasn't exactly what i wanted but the idea was what I wanted. 


I also put up my mom's/grandma's icicles and was in love with them this year. They haven't always worked for me on my tree but this year, I lovingly put up as many as I could. It seems to have made me feel most nostalgic with the holidays.


My mom would go back after we went to sleep and fix all the mistakes we made on the tree. Trust me, we have bare spots!

And then the magic happens. The Mattress was rolled out and the boys slept over in the Christmas tree room, where for 2 lovely nights they enjoy the lights and sharing a bed.

Watching them jump into bed with each other, excited to sleep together, reminded me exactly what this season is about. Forgiveness, love, understanding, giving in love, serving and family.


So for the kick off to the Season we embraced the sweet easy words from our Elder L. Tom Perry,  when he said "In our search to obtain relief from the stresses of life, may we earnestly seek ways to simplify our lives. 

SIMPLIFY- that is what we are doing. We are focusing on family and each other, Presents will always be there. But we are making memories this year.

Friday, March 7, 2014

December-

Obviously my blog is not a priority at all these days. But I miss having a journal of my kids. Plus, my kids are great and why not share them as much as I can.

 So December was a long time ago. So instead of catch up I will do photos, because they are much better anyway. The only low was a falling down the stairs in the middle of the night resulting in a pretty damaging disaster to a knee that will take about 3 months to figure out.

As far as Christmas went, it was small, perfect and we had a great time. Dallas and I have now paid cash for the last 7 Christmas' and we are going to keep staying out of debt to the best of our ability forever.

 Here it is in Pictures :  (With some words)

One of the things we have done while we have lived here has been to find our own traditions. We really have loved going to the Superstition Farms here locally and met with the same Santa, year after year. So last year and this year we have pictures with the same Santa. We made arrangements to go and it was amazingly warm this year and we had a great time. Hoodies were needed by adults and light jackets were required and shoes.... shoes! A few in our party wore flip flops.

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Both kids were in need of a hair cut but Grayson has curly hair so it is even more unruly. Plus I dread hair cuts. But they all had a great time. We had a dance party in the barn, we drove around in the hay ride wagon with Christmas lights. We fed animals and all were impressed with the ability to not be afraid of a small calf eating my fingers. One of the goats were loose and was eating Grayson and he was loving it! 

We miss the traditional night of Scones and Christmas lights with the Brown family so we did our own. We decided that we would do our own scones, walk around the neighborhood for lights and enjoy a little fire outside. ( See, Arizona is where it is at!) Oh and did I mention we had our own lights up for Tyler to be able to see, and Grayson LOVED. 



Christmas morning was perfect. But a little bit of backstory. A few days before Chritmas we received a GINORMOUS box that could have fit a person ( and if it was Grandma the Old Lady there would have been room to spare). Dallas thought I bought something he didn't know of and he waited for me to check it out. Turns out, a very amazing organization ordered and upgraded Tyler's adaptive trike. Mind you this is NOT a cheap gift. These bikes are around 2-4 thousand dollars so to open up the box and realize what was inside was amazing!! 

Christmas morning was perfect for the kids and magical as a christmas can be when you are little. I can't wait till next year. ( I am saving already) 







We have so many trains and cars and "city buses" that get used on that track and we have googled new ways to make them all fit. We have added a airport and more cars. The Marble run was moved out of the way of the little and just yesterday we were even up playing and doing new mazes. So we know the presents were picked out and done amazingly this year.  

One we went into 2014!


Thursday, January 10, 2013

Christmas Time

I wanted to record our Christmas time because at some point, as hard as things get, or as AWESOME as they get, I love seeing what happened to us. It goes along with my resolution this year.

So, here is our Christmas that should eventually have photos! 

In October we got word that the AMAZING contract we had for the last 2 years was ending. So we carefully put away a lot of money not knowing what we would be in for as far a job or new contract or what. As {our} luck would have it, we did amazingly well ( we also have no debt { medical doesn’t count in this}... dang right peeps!) and so we were able to live fully on our savings. I am a budgeter and a planner and I really try hard to think about the gifts that I want to give to our kids, so I knew what I needed to cover in cash, what we were to give each of them. This was not including any gifts to each other because, in all honesty, we are OK going without. 

Dallas was able to find a job a lot faster than we expected, but before this happened, my car, which is a hybrid, decided to not start one day. This was also at a time that D’s gramps was very sick and we had some people to be taxi’s for. So we used my budgeted amount of money to fix my car. It was a batter but Hybrids tend to kill you when something goes wrong. But we were still OK. 

Somehow, with our tighter budget pants on, the kids enjoyed a very nice Christmas. And Dallas got a mustang. { Long story... awesome story} Best present EVER!

December was a hard month in general for us. I had to have Christmas all done and taken care of before I went into surgery. After surgery, there was no way I could do more than a few things and I was not allowed to. My brother, OK it was his wife... whom I also ADORE! { whom I love and adore and had no idea about the above mentioned difficulties in our life} Offered to buy a ticket and flew my dad down to help for one week. This was such a much needed help. I couldn’t do anything. I was not mentally doing awesome and I really needed my dad. And because of the distance for Christmas, my kids really needed my dad too. 

I was not doing great though, trying to get better. My poor dad spent more time in an OB office in a week than he probably has in years. I am not doing recovery so well and the tumor they took off was huge and made things a little worse. 

So my dad was able to help me keep the house running, kids happy and most of all, me sane. 

While my dad was here we wanted to experience a few of the temples from the outside and so we went to the new Gilbert temple that was announced. It is in the works and it is HUGE and beautiful. We learned a lot about the things they are putting into the temple and I an’t wait to go back and take some more photos as it progresses. 

We also decided as Christmas time we would head into the LDS Mesa temple and look at the lights. Ty wasn’t really having it so we didn’t end up spending a ton of time. Lucky for us it was one of the warmer nights that my dad was here. He had a cold that he was coughing and I felt so bad for him. BUT not bad enough that he didn’t kept it to himself and I got sick soon after. 

I enjoyed the lights a lot. I wish we would have been able to walk around more and next year, if I can’t get my kiddos to go then I am going. I want to try out some newly found education on LIGHTS!! 

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I must add, that Ty didn’t really want to go to the lights. And we had to trick/convince him it was ok. So we didn’t get to stay long. Next year I want to go earlier in the year and walk around and enjoy it a lot more.

That Saturday, my dad had his last night here. We set up face time and skype with my mom and Aunt Nicky. The traditional Jammie's were going to be opened so Grandpa could see them in them and grandma could watch the kids. Nicky also wanted her present opened and so we had a technology filled evening. The boys loved it. Grayson is such a flirt with his Aunt Nicky and grandma. 

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We took Grandpa home to the airport on Sunday. I am pretty sure, though he was glad to be getting back to grandma, he was a little teary eyed to be missing hearing “ papa” followed by patters of feet running for a hug. 

On Christmas Eve we made dinner, had a nice quiet night and read Christmas stories. We went to bed and Santa had everything ready to go. 

The next morning we had the fun chaos and the boys loved their stuff. They also face timed with Grandma the old lady and grandpa the boy and Nicky while they opened up their stuff.

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Christmas left without much drama.

Ty was left thinking that Santa was coming every night. 

We were left with more toys than we needed.

And we were happy. 


Friday, December 28, 2012

Merry Christmas?

Holy smokes! The New Year is here ( almost!) and I haven't even blogged about Christmas. I must be awesome. I also looked for my camera cord for 3 days and didn't find it till tonight. And Christmas morning was hecka busy and I got a total of .... NO pictures. Instead we facetimed the Old Lady and the boy ( and Aunt poo poo) in Orangeville!

In the works.... Nothing. After having surgery I have opted to do NOTHING for another week, maybe 2 and send my kid back to school on the 7th. And start a new private blog with other stuff on it. Stuff that isn't as pretty as the Tyler stuff. We will be still doing this one but a private one will have the "good" stuff. So send me an email if you haven't already. Like I said this one will still be going because we have found way to many people through our awesome hero!!

So we will be posting Christmas in a day or 2 and we will be enjoying our new year with new resolutions and with new hope and new things to say!

Till then Bring on a BETTER 2013!!

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Christmas 2011

This Christmas was magical. Tyler totally got it, sort of, and he has talked about Christmas Eve for a while and he has understood Santa. He wasn't afraid of Santa either. He actually enjoyed the several times he saw Santa. When we did our Christmas cards ( that we have YET to send out) he stood right by Santa and said " Hey Santa, it's me Tyler."

We spent a lot of time with Family ( on both sides) this year. We had a wonderful time with the Warner family and had a great kick off with the Labrum family. Both left us all exhausted and ready for the big day.

This year on Christmas Eve we were invited to Aunt Crystal's where we had a wonderful prime rib dinner, cute kids, pajama's and Grandpa Brown reading to all the kids. We were exhausted by the time we got home.

D and I did the duty, made sure we had our traditional gifts to each other and off to bed we went. Tyler woke up about 6:30 and we easily entertained the kid for a half hour and woke up the Dad to go see what Santa brought.

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Ty was loving presents this year. We knew from past experience it was best to keep the movies to the end so we kept them out of sight. But he loved his presents. He got a doctor kit and immediately put on the stethoscope and listened to his own heart.
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He said he was Uncle Barrett. His kit came complete with glasses, a beeper and a cell phone for those late night/ weekend on call days!

Ty's also got a leap frog pen that he actually likes. He asks me what the pen says on the book and we read the books that he got. It was a huge fear that sensory wise he wouldn't be OK with it. But he was. He doesn't love to do it himself yet but both the boys love stories so I don't mind.

Baby Grayson has some how gotten the nick name of monkey. He has had it from the start. He has several sock monkey's and it has just kinda been his thing. Christmas was no exception. He got 3 of them. All different! He loved them too!

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With a new high chair and excersaucer this kid is LOVING being up and looking around. So much so he doesn't even care much for his bouncy seat. He had a great time on his first Christmas and even took a somewhat decent nap.
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At some point in the morning, Grandma the old lady and grandpa the boy and Nicky came by. Brought another round of Christmas joy by putting up a race car track on the wall. OH BOY it was a hit. We have yet to stop playing race the cars. ( word of advice though. Command strips DO take paint off.... And I found where one was taken off and HIDDEN.... (grandpa the boy) only to break off more later. But all in good fun right!
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Dallas made lamb for his family and had it cooking on the grill for a few hours. We headed off to Grandma's house in the late afternoon for more fun food and family. Ty and Grayson were spoiled rotten and Tyler came home with his newest prized possession.

A MICROPHONE!

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It is currently set up where he can enjoy his favorite things: Singing, Elmo, Magmets ( magnets) and a drink of pepper and toaster struddles, all while sporting his newest attire of Angry Birds. ( from Grandma the old lady)

Dallas and I had a wonderful time watching these sweet boys. I am thankful the week is over. My checking account is glad the season is over. My body is thankful for the hot mess of food we were given to eat and my heart if over flowing with the wonderful people we have in our lives.

What a holiday season it was..... Nothing but memories....

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Sunday, December 26, 2010

Merry Christmas

This year Christmas was MAGICAL! After 5 years we had a talking child and he has talked non stop about Christmas wish boxes, Santa and most recently about the reindeer, the Sleigh and Santa. Not to mention he really wanted " Handy Manny big job!" With much consistency too!

Ty was out of school most of the week so I got to have him home with me. We had last minute stuff to get all week and a few days we were planning to go out we found our self trapped by morning sickness. ( No worries, we are happily taking the morning sickness because then we KNOW we are still growing!) Ty was a trooper and even braved Salt Lake a little.

Come Thursday and the poop incident I knew that Christmas would be anything but boring. Friday we looked forward to the grwanpa's truck bringing signs of Santa, More Christmas and most of all GRWANPA and Grwanma!

After they went to drop off the other Christmas eve gifts, they came to join our house and get ready for bed. We opened the amazing grandparent gift of pajama's ( Thank you traditions!) and got ready to put the reindeer food outside. It was then that we realized he has misunderstood some of what was going on.

Ty thought that the reindeer food was going out to reindeer already IN OUR YARD! When that didn't happen the ensuing drama of not ACTUALLY getting to go with Santa and the Reindeer and the sleigh started. Oh he was SOOO sad. It took an awful lot of convincing that Santa comes when we are asleep and that we will have to take a ride on the sleigh another day.

The bath was short lived, his tears long lived but he went to sleep quickly and seemed to sleep well ( after coming to my bed anyway) I woke off and on through out the night and heard my dad get up around 4 am. I was up at 7. We spent a little over a half hour or so just talking, me and him. ( I love him. He is such a great person. I forget how much I loved the time we had when we did floors.) Ty woke around 7:30 am and was incredibly happy. He loved his tool bench that was put together and LOVED that it had a "cuckoo clock."

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We soon got down to business and started opening presents. He slowly was losing interest and so with MORE presents to spare we went ahead and had him open his Handy Manny Big job. It took him the rest of the day to open some of the other stuff.

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We started our big traditional Christmas Breakfast. ( Dallas' family did them forever, and we started doing them when we were on our own so we have kept doing it!) Quickly our house filled with people.

My Aunt Linda came with us and shortly after my brother and his 2 kids came. His wife didn't come due to some personal issues but we happily took her kids! My sister Nicky came and Tammy and her family came LATE as usual and they were all here to eat a yummy breakfast.

We had a few super fun gifts to open and was able to spend some time with Max for his "birthday" that is coming up. We haven't been able to get a time slot to do anything else with them while they are here so we packed it on in.

Soon everyone trickled out and we were left with our little family. We had Grandma and grandpa relaxing and trying to debate if they wanted to beat the weather or wait it out. So they gradually left to fight the weather. Leaving us to ourselves and our little family.

Ty finally finished opening presents and the best used present of the day was Nanni and poppi's island adventure Thomas set. It has been played with non stop for 2 days. Thank you.

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Christmas was wonderful this year. It is bitter sweet. Next year we will be a family of 4! How exciting. It was the first year that Tyler got it. We are so excited to see what happens next.


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The spirit of Christmas and the true meaning of Christmas is not something we find under a tree. It is what is AROUND the tee, not UNDER that makes our world go round. It makes the true meaning of Christmas come alive.

Merry Christmas family! Especially those who decided not to come or that we couldn't be with. May you know that you and yours are always in our prayers.



Sunday, December 19, 2010

Food for the Reindeer

Last night we had a massive episode with Tyler over sleeping/where to sleep/ how to sleep, you name it. He was SCREAMING almost non stop for 3 hours. We don't and haven't really ever done the cry it out thing but last night we did. We left his door open and he screamed and so we had to shut ours. Nothing was working.

Finally we got him to settle down and tell us what he wanted and he kept saying " The bigger bed." The bigger bed is the bed in the guest room. We were not convinced that he would stop throwing a fit but we tried it anyway. Seems to have done the trick because he totally crashed and slept till six.

Though that is 8 hours of sleep Ty hadn't been asleep in more than 18 hours. He was up super early the morning before and didn't go to bed a decent hour the night before, was crabby for most of the evening and wouldn't eat a whole lot. He moves constantly and his CP burns more calories than I can pack into his little body. Poor kid. He just can't win.

This morning when he woke up he was back to my sweet little boy. I was so thankful Satan took back his spawn. He happily ate 4 toaster struddles, asked for kisses and talked and talked and wanted Hot chocolate ( not to drink but to play with!)

Dallas came down a few hours later and spelled me off. I can't seem to figure out the best combination for the morning sickness just yet. So a little extra sleep seems to help out a lot. Ty and D played for a while and then Ty came up and read himself some stories.

Later in the afternoon we were talking to Tyler about the pictures he brought home from school this past week and he was bringing us a few Christmas presents. He brought home a few bags of Reindeer food. He would bring me the bag and tell me it was "Food for da reindeer" and that he was going to feed them cause they were "hungrwy." He then proceeded to tell Dallas that he wanted us to ride in the sleigh with Santa Clause. Dallas would smile and Ty would tell him that it was a "good idea dadd-e."

He has talked non stop about Santa, presents, Handy Manny big job, and the key that Santa will use to get in the house. It makes us so excited for Christmas this year.

Who knows, maybe Santa WILL want us to ride on his sleigh!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Sensory Santa

One thing we RARELY do is go to the mall. I had never thought about it until we had Tyler but aside from the germs, it is a sensory overload. The smells, the sounds, the stuff to look at. Sometimes it can be a bit much.

Late last night I remembered we had a neurosurgery appointment and knew we would need to leave early because it was storming, all night! I got Ty breakfast and started to get ready. The snow was PILING up and I decided to call and make sure I got the time right. Just as we were getting ready to go out the door they called and said that I was amazing and forgot the RIGHT date and didn't have an appointment today and that we would have to reschedule.

Instead of disappointing Tyler I told him we were going to go look for a present for Daddy. He got super excited and starting saying " Going to find a Christmas wish box for Daddy." ( Little Einsteins movie. CUTE movie!)

We drove through town because the freeway was a disaster and we ended up at the mall. I was super curious to see how he would react and there is only ONE freaking Disney store in Utah. We walked the mall and went to the Disney store. He was NOT loving it. There was to much noise. We left fast.

We walked past Santa and I asked the people if Tyler could walk up to Santa ( seeing that there was NO line at ALL!!) and see if he liked him before I paid out a million bucks for a picture. At first he was a little not sure but he talked to him. But wouldn't sit on his lap.

We left and headed to the play area. We met a nice lady there who also had a Tyler and a twin Tanner. Tanner has hydrocephalus and a rare brain disorder. We ended up talking for a while and found we had the same neurosurgeon.

After the play place I asked Ty if he wanted to get a picture with Santa for Daddy and he said yes. We headed back through the mall and paid the million bucks for the CD. Timidly walked up and Ty sat on his lap. He told Santa that he wanted a Handy Manny big job movie in his Christmas wish box! We even got a few photos.

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We left through Tai Pan trading and Ty found himself a wish box. He was in love. I was glad to be out of there. Ty did really well but when we got home from our adventure he had a few meltdowns until he was all by himself where he could kinda let his emotions loose.

The things we adapt to seems so weird when I look back and think that we don't take him certain places because of what effect it has on his system. Life has a funny way of adapting to make it work.


Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Happy Birthday Maxwell

I would like to introduce to you MAX! He is so cute! And Mischievous. The picture doesn't' do the eyes justice. He came to Utah for his 4th birthday. He was so excited that he got a Dinosaur cake. He was such a good kid. He jumped on the tramp, and played with cars and got a tool box for his birthday.

When Max was not born yet I was excited that Tyler and Max would be the exact same age... ( meaning like 5 days apart) But as luck would have it Max gets his own birthday ( with Jesus of course :) ) Max is a trooper for sharing his birthday. This year was the first year we have all been together for his birthday. It has taken 4 years!

SOOOOO Happy Birthday Maxwell!! We are so glad you are in our family. We can't wait till you are all here for July!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Christmas with Tyler

After 4 Christmas mornings with Tyler you would THINK I would realize that he just doesn't care once he opens that ONE gift he really really likes. For him it seems any book or movie will about do him in leaving the rest of the gifts for Dad and I to open for him.

We decided that like last year, we would buy one big gift and then little gifts. BUT the big gift, which I think should take a lot of thought into getting the "right one", couldn't be so obvious that he doesn't play or open the other stuff. ( like last years ball pit he wouldn't get out of) We decided not to put together his big gift till after he opened the rest.

Overall, he was OK with opening presents but he was even better once a book and a movie was opened. The big gift didn't phase him until it was put together.

Here are the pictures of Christmas:


Our Christmas tree pre Santa.. I didn't really get one POST Santa..


Christmas Eve Dallas was putting Tyler to bed and they were talking about Santa and if Ty had been good. When he woke us up and we took him downstairs and we waited to see if Santa had come he saw the presents and said " Oh cool."

The stocking was to pretty to fill so we put his big stocking toy IN the tree. We were pointing it out to him. It was pretty funny to see him see something new in the tree that he didn't put in the tree.

Ty really likes the super sleuths and Tiger goes right along with his big present. He loved the tiger and we had a hard time getting him back to opening presents.




A microphone so he can sing with Annie. He loved this thing in the store to. He will go get it any time Annie sings.



Ty got a cute little trampoline that has a handle so he can jump. He loves it. His face is priceless. Of course we had this in the box so that we would sort of get his attention. He has contently played with his new movies, books and jumper for hours and hours of fun.

Christmas Day we also got to have Max and Morgan and Kayden, Koy and Lexi here for a little party for Max. They brought their parents to! So we had a house full with Grandma and Grandpa Labrum. I don't think grandma and Grandpa could have been happier to have everyone together again. I thought Grandpa was gonna BURST!

That afternoon we went to Grandma and Grandpa Browns. Ty was/is sick. He has a nasty cold and cried all night Christmas eve so he was pretty done pretty fast. But we had a great time with his cousins there. He is a pretty spoiled kiddo!

This Christmas season I was especially humbled by Dallas and love him so much. He has worked very hard for us this year and we are so thankful for him and for all of the things that we have. I am also thankful for my Savior and to remember the reason for the season!

With Grandpa passing very close to Christmas and most of us being together, I can't help but remember how incredible the power of family can be. That no matter how many gifts are under the tree that we should remember Christ and our family should be the first things on our mind.

Merry Christmas!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas is in the air!



Today was such a great day. Ty was such a good kid and he is a walking and "talking" miracle. Ty and I spent his would have should have birthday doing a million things. We had a great time!

In September I wrote a grant for donations for Toys for Ty's therapy place. It is going to be filled during the new year but till then we were given $100 dollars to start it out. $100 bucks is hard to spend when it is someone else's money. So yesterday Ty and I went shopping for toys to donate to his therapy.

This morning we went to therapy and we took all the toys to be donated to them. He didn't stay around for the donations but I was able to help them. The therapist were THRILLED. Ty didn't cry when he went with Rachel. What a great accomplishment for Ty!

After we went to a rail road pizza place. He has had a strange interest in Trains lately. I lifted him up so he could see the train and he LOVED it. We ate pizza and then headed into the city.

Ty had his rehabilitation doctors appointment today. It went VERY VERY well. It is so weird and awesome to hear them say how wonderful he is doing and how well he is doing given his diagnosis. We asked a lot of questions about procedures and how botox would work and even the phenyl. The doctor was so surprised she was not his "normal" scheduled doc but he was so "unique" she came in to see us.

For a 25 weeker she even called him chubby!

Afterwards we headed home and when his dad got home we played in the tub, played and loved on him. He is so sweet.

Tonight we got the house cleaned up for the millionth time this week and tomorrow we are cleaning.

All of the presents are purchased, wrapped and ready for a happy 3 year old. He has LOVED the tree. He decorated it with Crayons sometime this week and I have been picking them out of the tree.

This year has been such a awesome year. We look forward to the next few days!

Merry Christmas!



p.s. sisters I MADE THOSE!! even the tags. I know who is this crafty lady... I don't know....

Friday, December 12, 2008

A Christmas story: A Lesson from Sylvester

Sitting at the foothills of the mountains, life in the small town was very laid-back and unhurried. Neighbors visited in the streets,
discussing the events of the world happening so far away. Children
played kickball on summer evenings, and the park was always filled with
young boys playing baseball. Everyone was concerned about their
neighbors and willingly helped them when any need arose. Neighbors
waited for neighbors as they crossed the only bridge into town. If a
car had already entered the small, one-lane bridge, other vehicles had
to wait. Such neighborly kindness was evident everywhere in town.
Well, almost everywhere.

At the top of one street lived an old gentleman with a full head of
white hair. He had lived there by himself for as long as anyone could
remember. He was known as “old Sylvester”. The adults in town
tried teaching their children to be polite to him, but never invited him
to their homes for Sunday dinner. Sylvester was a loner.

Children were known to be “mean” to him. Some of the big boys
might even throw rocks at him, just to hear him yell. He suspected the
boys in town of being the cause of his troubles. If a window was
broken, it was “the boys”. If something was missing, it was surely
“the boys.” Sylvester sometimes walked to the boys’ homes and had
a little visit with their parents. Trouble stopped for a little while,
then a new group of “boys” took their place and the cycle started
over.

Sylvester had an old, bent bike which he rode everywhere. He rode
downhill to the small grocery store where he picked up meager supplies--
a quart of milk, a loaf of bread, and sometimes a few other items. He
reached into his pocket and pulled out a few coins to pay for his
purchases. Most of the time the coins were not enough and the grocer
told him he could pay later when he had more change, knowing that he
would never see the money.

Sylvester continued on to the post office where he checked his mail for
any sign of friendship, but all he received were the monthly electricity
bill, water bill, and a few advertisements. “Good morning” he said
to anyone who stopped to nod at him. But it seemed that no one ever had
time to really talk to Sylvester. Waving his hand, he put his mail
alongside his groceries into the basket, and pedaled uphill this time,
to his ramshackled home.

Sylvester rode that bike during all kinds of weather. The streets of
the town were not paved, just gravel and dirt. This created many
problems for Sylvester, for the weather changed the road conditions
continually. During the hot, dry summers the road was dry and dusty,
settling on his clothes. In spring and fall the road turned to thick mud
during sudden rainstorms, making it very difficult to ride his bike.
After a storm, cars splashed mud as they passed him. Winter brought its
own problems. The snow froze on the road, turning it to a sheet of ice,
nearly impossible for riding a bike uphill, and so easy to lose control
going downhill to the store. So during the winter, Sylvester would walk
in the cold.

Sylvester’s clothes were old and worn. He wore an old pair of blue
woolen pants and a frayed white shirt. His shoes were loose and worn.
His coat was a size too big, with patches on the elbows, repaired by one
of the nicer ladies in town. He always had an old dusty top hat on his
white hair and fingerless gloves on his hands.

Sylvester walked with a shuffle, bent as though he walked
against the wind. His head was bend and his tousled hair shaggy in his
face as he passed everyone on the streets. Sylvester was quite the
“odd” character in town.

Sylvester could always be found in church on Sunday morning. His
clothes were the same that he had worn during the week. His
transportation was the same, that old bike, or his own two feet. But
there was something different about him on a Sunday. Every Sunday he
carried his violin case with him to the church house. He walked up the
flight of stairs to the chapel carrying his old tattered case with his
precious violin tucked lovingly inside. The congregation shook their
heads as they watched him slide into the pew at the back of the chapel.
People turned and whispered to each other, no doubt asking the same
question, “Will he do it today or not?” and secretly hoping the
answer would be “no.”

Sylvester had one problem that was very obvious to everyone in town.
He had a difficult time speaking. His words came out mumbled, making it
very difficult to understand. He tried to speak during the church
services, sometimes standing and expounding for a very long time, or so
it seemed. Children snickered and laughed behind their hands, following
the examples of their parents and church leaders who tried to shush the
children at the same time. Many times Sylvester then walked to the
front of the chapel, pulled out his violin and proceeded to play hymns.
The boys laughed at him, ducked their heads and chortled in their hands.
Girls giggled behind their paper fans. Adults rolled their eyes as
they listened, praying he would soon end and allow the meeting to
continue. It was obvious that he had musical talent because he made
that violin speak in a way no one else could, but everyone felt
ill-at-ease because it was not the appropriate thing to do at that time.

One cold, snowy Sunday afternoon, while eating dinner with his family,
a newly-ordained church leader made a surprise announcement. The next
night the family would be going on an adventure to spread Christmas
cheer to several of the needy families around the town. The three young
daughters rolled their eyes, knowing that they were being involved
because of their father’s position, not because they could actually
spread Christmas cheer. They would rather stay home and complete their
homework, or do some other household chore, simply because they really
didn’t want to go. But their father insisted, not telling them
exactly where they would be spreading this fabulous cheer.

Monday evening arrived. Following their father’s lead, they climbed
into the car. The first two stops were at homes of widows, friends of
their grandmother. The visits were friendly, the ladies happy to see
the girls and their parents out visiting on such a cold night. While
climbing into the car after leaving the home of the second widow, they
learned the destination of their last visit for the night.
Sylvester’s home.

The house at the top of the street was a scary thought to the young
girls. It was a place they had never been and was not on their list of
places they wished to ever visit. Their father assured them he would
protect them, and everything would be fine. He told them if they
approached this visit, looking through understanding eyes, they just
might learn a lesson that they would never learn elsewhere.

The father led the way with their mother following and the girls,
youngest to oldest, walking behind. They walked up the squeaky, wobbly
steps to the side door where the father knocked loudly so the old man
inside would hear.

Sylvester was excited to see the family at his doorstep. He quickly
invited them into his home. As the girls walked in, the lesson
immediately began. They entered into the dark and cold kitchen of this
humble home. The cupboards had no doors so it was easy to see they were
empty and bare. An old plate and cup sat in the dirty sink, along with a
dented tin saucepan, a coffee-pot sat on the counter. The coal-burning
stove had a small fire, not large enough to warm the house, but with
enough smoke pouring out to create a smoky haze throughout.

The family followed Sylvester into his living room. They passed a
small Christmas tree empty of decorations except for a few cards that
had been saved from past years. Sylvester picked up a small pillow
sitting on his couch. He pounded it against his leg, sending billows of
dust and smoke into the air. Apologizing for not cleaning up his place,
he invited them to sit on the couch. The girls looked around and
noticed bits of food left on the floor where he obviously ate his last
few meager meals. The room was cold, dirty, and smelly and the girls
were amazed that someone in their town actually lived in this type of
environment.

Sylvester was telling the father about his own children living in
California. This was the first time the girls realized he had children. He said they were planning on coming to visit him, but they wouldn’t
be able to make it this year. He rushed over to the Christmas tree.
Reaching behind, he pulled out a picture frame, wiped off the dirt, and
showed the photograph to the family. With pride in his voice, he
explained this was his daughter, his pride and joy. He couldn’t wait
to see her again; after all it had been more than 15 years since he had
last seen her.

He spoke of his years in California where he played the violin during
the silent movie era. The girls learned that he once had a wonderful
life, a life that he lost because of his own choices, a life he would
never get back. He said he learned from his mistakes and was trying to
be the best person he could with what little he had.

Sylvester was humbled when the mother gave him a loaf of bread and a
dozen of her famous raisin-filled cookies. He explained that he
didn’t keep gifts on hand to give out to his friends because people
did not visit him during the Christmas season and it was very difficult
for him to travel around town to deliver gifts. Continuing to make
excuses for this lack of gifts, he suddenly stopped. Turning around, he
said “Excuse me just a moment,” and disappeared down the hall.

He returned carrying his violin case. Wiping off the dust, he opened
the case and pulled out his precious violin. Turning a few of the
tuning pegs, he tuned the violin with the expertise of a master
musician. Then, in that cold, dusty room, he gave the young girls a
concert of the most beautiful Christmas music they had ever heard.
Sylvester closed his eyes as his fingers warmed with the notes of music
learned long ago. He played song after song, never stopping. He
connected the carols together in a way that made the songs flow one
after the other, like a bow wrapped around a present. All too soon, the
music slowed to the end of “Silent Night”. With tears in his eyes,
he bowed his head and said a prayer, thanking God for bringing these new
friends into his home, and for letting him share with them his precious
gift, the talent of his music.

Humbled, the family quietly shook his hands, knowing they were
shaking hands with a master. They thanked them for this wonderful gift
and quietly returned to their car.

Words could not express the lesson the girls learned that evening.
Sylvester was now a different person in their eyes. Not someone to be
laughed at and ridiculed, but a person of worth, someone who had paid
the price for his choices, and still had so much to give.

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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

A full Schedule


I was sitting down with Dallas yesterday and making a schedule to make sure that we had coverage of parental duties where needed and we realized we are FULL! There is not ONE DAY now till Christmas that we aren't needed somewhere.

For example, mommy is not feeling well today ( Mac trucks hit her in her sleep) and when she went in at 6 to find out why Ty was crying in his bed I kindly reminded him that it was still night time and we both woke to a honking school bus. So he missed school but had a DDD meeting and a doctors appointment for clearance for his procedure NEXT week.

Tomorrow we have therapy and Friday speech. Those are constant appointments. At least it keeps us busy!

Next week is a big week. Tyler is having his teeth done on Wednesday. Dallas can't get off so I am on my own. First one EVER that he has had to miss.

On the 23rd we are having his Botox consult and meet his rehab docs for the first time. It should be interesting and I am preparing to have LOTS of questions and information.

On the 20th we are having family pictures and going to zoo lights.

So being busy isn't all bad.

Ty is getting so big. He is getting around a ton and doing so much more than expected. We push him to walk like a big boy all the time and he has finally stopped "wearing out" his pj bottoms.

On yet another happy note we have "official" dates for coming to Utah.. not time just dates!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Getting to me Holiday Edition ( a tag)


A ward member from my mission sent this to me. It is the holiday version of getting to know you! I thought that since most pass around the other one I would do this as a tag!

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? I do both. It depends on who it is. For kids totally wrapping paper. But as a disclaimer I am the worlds WORST wrapper. I paid my sister when I was younger. She even wrapped her own a few times

2. Real tree or Artificial? We had both growing up and my mom hated the real ones and I am sure that is what made me sick every single year. But I am all about artificial with a nice pine scented candle

3. When do you put up the tree? This year I wanted to do it the day after Christmas ( YES I WANTED TO) I was excited to see how Tyler would react to it.

4. When do you take the tree down?I am sure we will be taking it down a week or so after New Years.

5. Do you like eggnog? Yes actually I do. I do like it with Sprite. Dallas likes it with milk. Last year he even made his own.... yikes

6. Favorite gift received as a child? I really don't remember a favorite. I remember getting a cabbage patch preemie though and I loved it. My mom might remember a favorite.

7. Hardest person to buy for? Dallas. He is so hard. Only because he wants big electronic stuff and specifics that I can't surprise him with much.

8. Easiest person to buy for? Tyler. I could spend way to much money on him. I have so much stuff I want to give him but see no need with all the toys he has.

9. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes. I want a willows ones some day.

10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail. I haven't sent any out in a while though. I am hoping to take photos soon and send them out.

11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Uncle Kenny rocked at getting us dumb stuff. I don't know of a "stupid" or worst gift ever.

12. Favorite Christmas Movie? Since I don't really "have" one and I haven't' really "loved" Christmas I think I will just tell you the one I saw most of my life... the night they saved Christmas!

13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? This year I started picking up things in October. I am almost done though. Now I have to plan ahead so I get things mailed out in time.

15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Cheese balls my mom makes, clam dip and Dallas mushrooms....Growing up we had the Christmas cookie exchange at my moms work and that was so great. They should do that again. Oh and Aunt Ruannes oreo's

16. Lights on the tree? White. We had colored growing up..


17. Favorite Christmas song?
Bishop Sharp singing the inn keeper. And Mary did you know.

18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? we did both when I was younger. I remember driving home from Grandma Labrums in the car. I want to say Blazer but I don't know if it was that long ago. And we had Christmas eve with the Ware's

19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's? Yes but the song helps .

20. Angel on the tree top or a star? This year nothing. I can't find one I like so it is empty!

21. Open presents on Christmas Eve or morning? Growing up we were up as early as 4... THANK YOU BARRETT! We also did presents Christmas eve from Grandma and grandpa and mom and dad. With Ty I still think of his "birthday" the day we brought him home and plan to keep doing something every year, and he is going to open at least one present on Christmas eve.

22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? Christmas was up before thanksgiving. There are so many things in between that make it a amazing time of year. Forgetting that giving is the real reason not the getting. And that it is about Christ not presents.
23. Favorite Ornament theme or color? My mom had gorgeous peach ones. I loved that tree. I have dark red and creme this year.

24. Favorite for Christmas dinner? Ham and turkey and mushrooms!

25. What do you want for Christmas this year? My family to be happy. A healthy year with Tyler. A prosperous year for us, family and friends. A year that we get to visit family and they come to see us more.

My most wanted gift?
That Tyler will be able to talk and walk and run.


Merry Christmas to all!

I tag:

Crystal
Jennifer
Jenn K
Tammy
Nicky
My mom
Chantel

Friday, November 28, 2008

My Happy Holiday Weekend

I have had such a wonderful weekend I don't want it to end. I go back to work all day tomorrow and I am wishing that I was staying home with the boys. I am wishing that I was staying home and decorating and loving and smiling with Tyler.

Some pictures of Thursday!

Thanksgiving:

Tyler decided to help us Cook and clean so he played at the sink.

He was so funny. As he was playing in the water he noticed he could put his head under and get it wet. He would stick it under, then turn around and giggle. It was so funny. We felt so blessed.

I went to work and wanted to hit the black Friday sale. I got just what we had decided on and at a great deal. I ended up working and being gone 17 hours. Today my feet hurt so bad and I am falling asleep. I am heading to bed!

But first a little preview of the one thing that has helped me "like" Christmas